Suddenly have the feeling to write something here,just a random thought due to the past few months studying in KTT.
Well,first thing i would like to touch about friendship: It could be so simple,but yet so complicated...i have seen one of my friends struggling in a friendship,which have caused him so many troubles which are unnecessary.And i have been trapped in this issue for a long long time.Being a counselor isn't that easy,and i always tried to be the middle man of both,hoping that there's still hope in this relationship,but i am afraid i am wrong,that's nothing much i can do except being a listener. Of course there are also conflict between my friends and i. Having some misunderstanding with my friends,arguing about some silly stuff,just make me feel that friendship is just so fragile, you can be very good friends,but you might be enemies the next second.Who knows???
So,i have my own conclusion: Don't ever seek for pay back from others just because you are treating them good,as they have no obligation to do that. BUT,do appreciate those who are nice to you,don't regret only when you lose them.
Second,love...Again,i have seen a lot of my friends suffering in love matters. And sometimes i am curious what are they expecting from me when they ask for my help. You know,"LOVE" is different from other relationship,as it's between HIM and HER,there's nothing much we,the outsiders can do.But i am not willing to see my friends suffering alone,as i know
" God have His own plan for everything!"They share with me their problems because they trust me,and i should, at least do something to help them.Trying to help them do the connection, transferring the messages that they hope him/her will understand,and luckily i didn't spoil their relationship,but indeed solve some of the problems,haha...
Going through all these,i realized one thing: Being understanding is so so important in a relationship.A couple consists of two people who are from different family background, different culture, and having different perspectives on a particular thing.We can't and shouldn't alter ones mind or living style just to suit ourselves.
As short,live your life now with a smiling face,face all the odds with a positive mindset...cherish every moment you spend with your beloved one =)
CCES committee 2010/2011 (p.s.chong2 be the camera lady)
Ki siao in Green Box XD
First week in KTT,during treasure hunt
My lovely housematesssss (plus another pig,vince)
