Random thought (KTT)

There have been long time since my last post...
Suddenly have the feeling to write something here,just a random thought due to the past few months studying in KTT.
Well,first thing i would like to touch about friendship: It could be so simple,but yet so complicated...i have seen one of my friends struggling in a friendship,which have caused him so many troubles which are unnecessary.And i have been trapped in this issue for a long long time.Being a counselor isn't that easy,and i always tried to be the middle man of both,hoping that there's still hope in this relationship,but i am afraid i am wrong,that's nothing much i can do except being a listener. Of course there are also conflict between my friends and i. Having some misunderstanding with my friends,arguing about some silly stuff,just make me feel that friendship is just so fragile, you can be very good friends,but you might be enemies the next second.Who knows???
So,i have my own conclusion: Don't ever seek for pay back from others just because you are treating them good,as they have no obligation to do that. BUT,do appreciate those who are nice to you,don't regret only when you lose them.


Second,love...Again,i have seen a lot of my friends suffering in love matters. And sometimes i am curious what are they expecting from me when they ask for my help. You know,"LOVE" is different from other relationship,as it's between HIM and HER,there's nothing much we,the outsiders can do.But i am not willing to see my friends suffering alone,as i know

" God have His own plan for everything!"

They share with me their problems because they trust me,and i should, at least do something to help them.Trying to help them do the connection, transferring the messages that they hope him/her will understand,and luckily i didn't spoil their relationship,but indeed solve some of the problems,haha...
Going through all these,i realized one thing: Being understanding is so so important in a relationship.A couple consists of two people who are from different family background, different culture, and having different perspectives on a particular thing.We can't and shouldn't alter ones mind or living style just to suit ourselves.


As short,live your life now with a smiling face,face all the odds with a positive mindset...cherish every moment you spend with your beloved one =)

 CCES committee 2010/2011 (p.s.chong2 be the camera lady)

 Ki siao in Green Box XD

 First week in KTT,during treasure hunt

My lovely housematesssss (plus another pig,vince)

Starting A new liFe

Far away from my hometown~

going to start the new chapter of my life~

so many things i miss~

i love u,my family...always be my moral support no matter how bad the situation i face

i love u,my darling...always care about me and willing to listen to my problems

i love u,my friends...always be my side through thick and thin (especially my 3 BFs and 1 good listener)

really appreciate your sacrifice, hope the sweet moments will never swept away from your memories...

I am going to start a new life=)  

HoneYmOOn iS cOminG tO thE eNd~Part 2

ACTIVITY 3: Bowling

if you are dare enough, come challenge me XD

a tatt looks so funny =)

lets have a pic after finished the game

Bowling, it seems like a wastage of money and your precious time, but for me, it has its own psychosocial benefits which really strengthen  my friendships with all my buddies.=)

I am not an expert in playing bowling, but i think i am one of the skillful players among my friends.

Just having a game with my buddies,ooi and victor, this afternoon. It looked so simple but i really enjoyed it. (i am not sure about the other two,haha)  Initially, i started the game with a "spare",well, it was good enough for me.But the luck was not on my side later on since ooi started to overtook my ranking. His performance was so excellent when he scored a "spare" and two "strikes" continuously, it was really a big surprise for me,HAHA. On the other hand, victor started to get mad when his ball washed the drain frequently. All of us were wondering whether he was cursed by "something" until cannot score well,haha...

After having a "keen" competition among three of us, ooi finally appeared as the winner by scoring 120, followed by me with 73 score and victor with 24 score. (victor, sorry to publish here but since you had given me the permission, i think the readers have the right to know,haha) 

bowling centre in Pacific

ooi, i will win you next time, wait for it,haha

tired after finishing the game 

victor, don't cry~

but if you wanna cry,cry on my shoulder~

HoneYmOOn iS cOminG tO thE eNd~Part 1

It has been a very long period since my last post. I am too "busy" with my fully-arranged schedule,since i am trying to full use my time before i further my study soon. Just in the twinkling of an eye,my 4-months honeymoon is coming to the end .In fact, i realize that the 4 months seems very short for me and i am still not willing to let it go~ recalling back what i have done during this 4 months, i could proudly say that i didn't waste it anymore except some of my target haven't achieved yet. ( planned to get myself slimmer initially but it seems failed, haha )
Here are some activities that i have carried on during my honeymoon:

ACTIVITY 1: Swimming

my buddies and i 

Never think that swimming can be have so much fun XD. Before this, i dare not went swimming in public places because i have a "spare tyre" which is actually an embarrassment for me.However, once i tried it after persuaded by my buddy, i found out that swimming is such a wonderful activity. It is not just an exercise, but type of relaxation which you are like embraced by the water wave, enjoy the gentle movement of the water ripples.For those who have a "slim" body like me, don't feel uncomfortable to go swimming as it doesn't matter actually. Take out your CONFIDENCE and feel free to show off your "spare tyre" anytime,haha...

P.S.> my swimming kAki: raymond ooi


ACTIVITY 2: Go E-box

my darling and i=)

As you can see in  the pics, i am one of the most popular customers of E-box,HAHA...
SINGING--for me is not just open your mouth and breathe out the lyrics. It is an art of expressing your real feeling and at the same time, entertain others by using your nice voice. (just like me XD) 
I am wondering how many hours i had spent in E-box since the holiday started, and of course i am also wondering how many praise that i had received from my 'FANS' who love my voice so much. =)
Perhaps, E-box has become my second home,where i can really find back my confidence, but i had burnt a big hole in my wallet!  i will miss this place very much after i go Melaka, for sure~


P.S.> my e-box kAki: soo choon jian, chua lian tatt, chong wei chin

~Dreams~

“Dreams are like stars...you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny.”


Once in our lives,there are many occasions when we are standing in front of a T-junction,wandering around,deciding on the correct path to take.JUst like what stated in the poem "The Road Not Taken",there are only one road that we can take and it is our choice that will make all the difference.It is important to follow your heart and choose what u really want so that you won't regret in the future.


 After a long time of my mentally struggle, i finally came out with my choice and have attended "Program Pendedahan Kerjaya Seorang Doktor" organized by JPA. The aim of this activity is to expose us to a medical profession, finding the way how a doctor doing their daily job as well as how they cope with the stresses and strains.All the participants were given chances to visit different departments under the guidance of nurses there. (For me, it is actually a self-service visit.Maybe they are too busy until nobody take notice of our appearance)


The 4-days-exposure definitely benifits me,having more ideas on my choice to further my study in medical course.I can heard many SIGH there, sounds discouraging but I see it as a motivation for me,as the saying goes"There are no shortcut to success"and every sacrifice will finally come to the fruits of labour.
Beside gaining much experience,i also got the chance to make new friends there.Lets go through our photo session=) 

Group 3 members, all say "E....." (sorry, vera is not there)

just guess what are we doing,haha

my best friends and I

I like this pic, style man.....

sweet~

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.So,make sure that you have made the correct choice before you continue your journey=) 

CNY 2010

In the twinkling of an eye, CNY 2010 almost come to the end....
The CELEBRATION this year is quite different 4 me, most of the time was spent with my family (next year i m going study ad, so better stick with family this year^^) 
ALL my aunty uncle came back from Penang, KL, Singapore in order 2 celebrate this fun-filled days....
everyone was having their precious holidays, but i wasn't off anymore instead busy cherish all the sweet memories inside my phone, come have a look^^


CNY EVE

  deity of wealth, faster come!!!

1st day of CNY

the whole family enjoying the reunion dinner

pity the camera man was not inside =( 

TIGER  LION WOHOO^^

PENANG trip

what a magnificent view!!!

my lovely dad n mom

queensbay shopping--i m the tallest,muahaha....

come have a photo b4 going back

cheese^^

THERE are too many photo 2 share here, i will create an album in my fb later,haha.....

Lastly..............                                                  

GONG XI FAI CHOI

QTI Day

if i am asked to use one word to describe QTI, i can just say "WEIRD"....

This morning i had my qti test, so nervous cuz this is my first time (of course la.....)
9.20am--the taklimat started and the trainer was giving a talk, or it is better to say tat is a quick revision
10.20am--taklimat finished...
it is too boring to wait 4 our turns, so yl and i decided to go chat with my darling and other friends who are waiting 4 their motor and car practice too...suddenly,out of the blue, an old trainer appeared "no 16,17 (yl n my serial numbor) , awak berdua ambil qti tak? awat duduk kat sini? cepat pi thumb jari!!!"
all people looking at us, so embarrasing~
11.45am--yl's turn to have her qti, u guess wat, she took less than 10 min to finish it!!! it is indeed a miracle!!! wELL, i prefer to conclude it as "WEIRD" , right yl and darling?haha.....
then is my turn, i am so lucky to meet a nice examiner,everything tick tick tick though i am not doing so well,cant believe i can passed it so easily,muahaha....."WEIRD"!
12.45pm--yl and i went to ask 4 our jpj date.OMG!!!have to wait until 24th of Feb, so long to go,haiz.....my heart was broken....i cant have my own drive during cny,sad=(

a bag containing lucks and love tat make me passed my qti, thanks a lot darling=)

nite--i helped my mom to make some cookies 4 cny, it is tiring and now i realized tat my mom have sacrificed a lot 4 her lovely family, thanks mom.....

who dare to try my masterpiece?hehe

so tired today, have to leave,bye2